For Childless Spouses
December 9
(The Conception of the Holy and God-bearing Mother Anna, when the Holy Theotokos was Conceived. On the same day, the Holy Prophetess Anna (Hannah), the Mother of the Prophet Samuel.)
By Archpriest Victor Guryev
December 9
(The Conception of the Holy and God-bearing Mother Anna, when the Holy Theotokos was Conceived. On the same day, the Holy Prophetess Anna (Hannah), the Mother of the Prophet Samuel.)
By Archpriest Victor Guryev
Childless couples often grieve deeply over their childlessness. Others have everything: wealth, high social status, health, and good fortune, yet still have no children. And the desire for them sometimes even becomes a torment. What can one say to console such people, and what advice can one offer them?
The examples of ancient pious childless couples teach us to find help in prayer in such cases. Samuel's mother, Hannah, prayed fervently for a child, her face glowing as she did so, and even her voice choked with emotion. Her prayer was heard, and she gave birth to a great Prophet, beloved of God and the foremost judge of God's people for nearly half a century. No less fervent was the prayer of the mother of the Most Holy Theotokos, who cried out: "Look upon me now, O Lord, and hear my prayer. Loosen the affliction of my heart and make the barren fruitful." And this prayer was heard, and she and her husband were granted a daughter, who later became the Mother of the Lord. Finally, the prayer of Zechariah and Elizabeth was not in vain, as the Angel announced to him: "Fear not, Zechariah, for your prayer is heard; and your wife Elizabeth shall bear you a son, and you shall call his name John; and you shall have joy and gladness" (Luke 1:13-14).
So you, childless spouses, resort to this means, and the Lord will hear your prayer too. But you will say, "We resort to it, but it seems God does not accept our prayer." In that case, intensify it, and if it was brief and incomplete, then supplement it. With what? By presenting to the Lord that you ask Him for children not for your own earthly pleasure, but in order to give them to Him and, as it were, continue your service to Him in them. Thus, both the aforementioned Annas made these promises to the Lord, for the success of their prayers. Samuel's mother said, "Lord, if You look upon the lowliness of Your servant, and remember me, and give Your servant male seed, then I will give him to You as a gift until the day of his death" (1 Samuel 1:11). And the mother of the Most Holy Theotokos also said, "Then, Lord (i.e., if the request is fulfilled), we will present the child we bear to You as a gift: blessing, singing, and glorifying Your mercy." As you can see, such vows are also useful when praying for children, and therefore add them to your prayers, telling at least the Lord that if He blesses you with childbearing, you will raise children in the fear of God, in the Orthodox faith, and in strict obedience to the Orthodox Church.
Be zealous also to join your prayers with a pious life. Remember that Abraham and Isaac, initially childless but later blessed by God with children, as well as the parents of Samson and Samuel, the Most Holy Theotokos and the Forerunner, were all godly people. Take them as examples. And if you keep yourselves like them, not only will you have children, but also grandchildren, "and your hope will not be cut off" (Prov. 23:18). Amen.
Source: Translated by John Sanidopoulos.
