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May 28, 2026

Prologue in Sermons: May 28


To Simple Folk

May 28

(A discourse about the shoemaker whom the emperor’s scribe found at midnight praying in the Church of the Most Holy Theotokos in Chalkoprateia.)

 
By Archpriest Victor Guryev

To you, simple folk, our word shall be addressed, and this is what we shall say to you. In order to turn you away from the thought that one can be saved only in a monastery or in some desert, today we propose that you listen to an incident which happened to a certain inhabitant of Constantinople.

“One night,” he says, “I went to church to pray. At midnight I saw near it a man who, standing at the church doors, prayed for a long time and with tears. Then the church doors opened before him by themselves, and he entered in. After praying fervently in the church, he came out, and the church doors again closed behind him by themselves. Marveling at this vision, I followed him and learned where he lived.

A few days later I visited him and said: ‘On Friday I saw you praying in church, and I saw that the church doors both opened and closed before you by themselves; therefore I have come to you so that you might reveal to me your virtues, that I may learn to imitate them and through you obtain forgiveness of sins.’

May 3, 2026

Holy Martyrs Timothy and Mavra in the Hymnography of the Orthodox Church


By Fr. George Dorbarakis

Saint Joseph the Hymnographer once again makes use of the names of the Saints in order to characterize, by means of them, the quality of their holiness. Timothy and Mavra thus "honored God" and "darkened error”: “Having honored God, they darkened error, namely Timothy and the glorious Mavra” (Kathisma of Matins). Repeatedly he employs figures of speech, especially the contrast between light and darkness, to show that although the Saint is called Mavra (“dark”), she is full of the light of God. “With a flashing form, O modest and all-blessed Mavra, and by the light of your grace you darkened the faces of the dreadful tyrant” (Sticheron of Vespers). “Having cast off the dark evil-mindedness, you became light through martyrdom, O God-blessed one” (Ode 5).

February 19, 2026

Prologue in Sermons: February 19


People, Both the Uneducated and Those Living in the World, Can Be Saved

February 19

(Homily of Saint Gennadios, Patriarch of Constantinople, on the fear of God.)

By Archpriest Victor Guryev

Some among the common folk, lazy concerning the work of their salvation, when spoken to about salvation, wishing to justify their negligence, exclaim:

“I am simple and ignorant; I know nothing!”

Others say: 

“I have a wife and children; necessities overwhelm me — I have no time for salvation!”

Let us see, brethren, whether this is truly so.

Why do you trouble yourself, O man, seeking many books that instruct you in what is beneficial, and going to every teacher saying: “Teach me how I may be saved”?

February 13, 2026

Homily on Saint Martinian (St. Michael Choniates)


Editorial Introduction

This homily survives in only one manuscript, the Laurentian codex (Λ), folio 104a, but it was found without its beginning, the opening having been lost together with the leaves of the codex that went missing between the end of the address “To Stryphon” and the leaf now bearing the number 104. The missing leaves were probably three in number. The title, being absent in the manuscript, was supplied conjecturally.

Homily on Saint Martinian 

By St. Michael Choniates, Metropolitan of Athens

… though differing in rank of glory, yet all are glorified and shining with purity: virginity is gold, widowhood and marriage silver — second indeed in order and glory to virginity, yet not deprived of splendor, provided they are kept free from the defiling stain that corrupts.

November 17, 2025

Prologue in Sermons: November 17


One Can Attain Salvation In Any Rank

November 17

(A Sermon on Eucharistos the Shepherd)

By Archpriest Victor Guryev

I have often said that salvation can be found not in a monastery, but in the world as well, and, indeed, in any rank, and to convince you of this, I have repeatedly cited examples of saints who, like you, were of humble rank and unlearned, and entered the Kingdom of Heaven. Now I intend to prove the same point again, and I believe the example I will give will be instructive for you.

November 5, 2025

Saints Galaktion and Episteme in the Hymnography of the Orthodox Church


By Fr. George Dorbarakis

The Saints celebrated today are both spouses and monastics, who belong to that group of Christians who followed the so-called white marriage: which means that while they are spouses, they do not have carnal relations. The Hymnographer even expresses this double paradoxical relationship with a very beautiful phrase - and not only with this: the Saints are "renowned in marriage, a great wonder of the unmarried." Our Church does not promote white marriage as an example to be imitated. White marriage is a choice of certain spouses, who, appreciating their strengths and the entire purpose of their lives, decide that maintaining their virginity, even within marriage, constitutes a choice that facilitates the interests of their souls. The Hymnographer notes this: "Both interests being in harmony." Something similar perhaps happens with the gift of foolishness: while it is a gift from God, it is not proposed as a way of life by our Church. And this is something that shows how down-to-earth and sympathetic the Church is towards the faithful: each time it emphasizes the middle path, without however excluding those who wish for something different as a transcendence. Because what is sought by Her is not the path, any path, but the relationship with Christ. This constitutes the end and She does not interfere much with the means to achieve the end.

October 9, 2025

Prologue in Sermons: October 9


What Should the Life of Christian Spouses Be Like?

October 9

(From the Story of the Venerable Father Daniel About Andronikos and His Wife)


By Archpriest Victor Guryev

Throughout the year, the Holy Church frequently commemorates Christian spouses, that is, husbands and wives who, living their lives together, strove with one another in virtue and were together granted crowns for it. Since the lives of these saints offer valuable lessons regarding how to attain salvation within the context of family life, they should be particularly instructive for us, laypeople.

As an example, I will point you to something from the life of Saints Andronikos and his wife Athanasia.

June 24, 2025

June: Day 24: Teaching 1: The Nativity of Saint John the Baptist


June: Day 24: Teaching 1:
The Nativity of Saint John the Baptist


(Good and Pious Children Are the Fruit of the Fervent Prayers of Their Parents)

By Archpriest Grigory Dyachenko

I. The nativity of the great Forerunner of the Lord is very remarkable for the fact that his birth itself was unusual and miraculous, that it was the fruit of the fervent, lifelong prayers of his parents, the reward of their faith and hope, their righteousness and piety, their patience and devotion to the will of God.

The holy parents of the Forerunner of the Lord were righteous and pious. Yet, these great righteous figures faced a temptation that was more unfortunate than any affliction recorded in the Old Testament Church. "They had no children" from the beginning of their married life until old age, which at that time was considered a clear indication of God's disfavor and seemingly an act of rejection by God. One can imagine, dear brethren, how fervent were the prayers of these pious spouses, who, despite their diligence in following God's law and their earnest efforts to "walk in all the commandments and ordinances of the Lord blamelessly," found themselves deprived of God's blessing; so, all these prayers seemingly went unheard. But in heaven, all their prayers were heard, all their sighs and tears were counted; there was prepared for them such a reward that abundantly fulfilled their long-standing deprivation. To them, in their old age, when they themselves had ceased to hope, they were granted such a son, "one greater than He has not risen among those born of women," whose birth was a cause of universal joy, whose life was a wonder to the holy angels, an object of reverence to the entire people of Israel, who was sent by God to prepare the way for the coming Redeemer of the world. A righteous reward for long-standing, lifelong patience and hope!

February 20, 2025

"Outside the Body ... Towards the Same Body"



By Protopresbyter Themistokles Mourtzanos

"Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins towards the same body" (1 Cor. 6:18).

The human being becoming an object, a thing, a res, is not just a current phenomenon. Nowadays, in the third world, people are cheap labor, so that the rich can enjoy goods, especially technological ones, in abundance. In war, everyday people become “collateral damage”, while the number of dead is what matters, not who they really were. In relationships, many see the other as body and flesh and not as a complete coexistence of soul and body. Thus, relationships today are characterized by the exclusivity of sensuality.

January 24, 2025

January: Day 24: Venerable Xenia of Rome


January: Day 24:
Venerable Xenia of Rome

 
(The Feat of Virginity)

By Archpriest Grigory Dyachenko

I. Venerable Xenia, now being glorified, in the world known as Eusebia, was the daughter of noble and wealthy parents who lived in Rome, and from her very childhood loved Christ and wished to devote her whole life to serving Him. But when she learned that her parents were arranging her marriage with a young man equal to her in wealth and nobility, and learned that they would not allow her to refuse a union with him, Eusebia judged according to the word of the Apostle, that "it is not right in the sight of God to listen to men more than to God" (Acts 4:19), and on the eve of the wedding celebration, when everything in the house was prepared for her entry into a new, even more brilliant than before life, she, at night, with two slaves devoted to her, hid from her parents' house, taking with her some valuable things that belonged to her.

January 8, 2025

January: Day 8: Teaching 2: Holy Martyrs Julian and Basilissa


January: Day 8: Teaching 2:
Holy Martyrs Julian and Basilissa

 
(On Marital Chastity)

By Archpriest Grigory Dyachenko

I. Today the Holy Church celebrates the memory of the holy martyrs Juliana and Basilissa.

Saint Julian, who loved Christ with all his heart from an early age, wanted to remain a virgin for the rest of his life. But his parents were determined for their son to be married, and they urged him to enter into married life. The Saint asked them for seven days to think it over, and he spent these seven days in fasting and prayer, begging the Lord to preserve him in virginity and purity. The Lord heeded his prayer, appeared to him in a dream and said that He would send him a bride who would fully sympathize with him in his good intentions. After this vision, Julian expressed his desire to marry to his parents. The parents were very happy and found him a bride, a kind and exemplary Christian woman named Basilissa. The wedding feast ended, and the newlyweds were taken to their room. But as soon as the bride entered it, she felt a wondrous, unusual fragrance. "What does this mean?" said the bride to her groom, "now it is winter, and here in the room I sense with delight the sweet smell of fragrant spring flowers." - "This is the fragrance of heavenly paradise," answered Julian, "it occurs through the action of the Lord Himself. If we love God and preserve our virginity, then we too will be worthy of the blessedness of paradise." - "What could be more precious than eternal salvation?" said Basilissa, and she decided to remain a virgin. Then Julian fell to the ground to pray, and they saw a wondrous vision: on one side the Lord Himself with a multitude of virgins in white robes, and on the other the Most Holy Theotokos with a multitude of virgins, and from both sides marvelous singing was heard. Then the holy elders showed them a book in which the names of Julian and Basilissa were written between the names of the virgins. When Julian’s parents died, they used the rich funds they left behind to build two monasteries – one for men and one for women – and separated from each other for the Lord forever, each struggling in his own monastery in the hope of eternal heavenly joys prepared for those who love the Lord.

November 15, 2024

November: Day 15: Teaching 1: Holy Martyrs Gurias, Samonas and Habibus

The Gothic warrior makes an oath before the graves of Sts Gurias, Samonas and Habibus (18th cent.).
 
November: Day 15: Teaching 1:
Holy Martyrs Gurias, Samonas and Habibus

 
(Lessons From the Miracle They Performed:
a. It is Necessary to Fulfill the Given Legal Oath,
b. To Love Your Wives, and
c. Not to Lose Heart in Misfortunes, But to Turn to God in Prayer With Tears)


By Archpriest Grigory Dyachenko

I. The Holy Martyrs Gurias, Samonas and Habibus, who suffered for their loyalty to Christ during the reign of Diocletian in the city of Edessa, are revered as patrons and protectors of wives in cases of family troubles and misfortunes, as a result of one of their miracles.

One of the warriors of the Greek emperor, a Goth, while staying in the house of the pious widow Sophia, a resident of the city of Edessa, married her daughter, the beautiful Euphemia, while he was already married, i.e., he committed the grave sin of adultery.

When he was leaving with Euphemia for his homeland, Sophia, at the grave of the Holy Martyrs now being glorified, took an oath from him that he would not do any harm to her daughter, but would love and protect her.

November 9, 2024

November: Day 9: Teaching 2: Venerable Matrona


November: Day 9: Teaching 2:
Venerable Matrona

 
(Against the Cruel Treatment of Husbands Towards Their Wives)

By Archpriest Grigory Dyachenko

I. The Venerable Matrona, who is now commemorated by the Church, lived in the 5th century and was originally from Persia. While still young, her parents gave her in marriage to a nobleman named Dometian. Matrona was distinguished by her piety and led a strict way of life, although she lived in the world. Her husband Dometian did not like this and he began to hinder her at first with reprimands, abuse, and then even beat her. Then Matrona retired to the male Monastery of Venerable Bassian in Constantinople, hoping in this way to more reliably hide from the search by her husband and relatives: she entered the number of the brothers with the name of Babylas.

For some time, the Venerable Matrona lived in the monastery quietly, spending her time in labor and prayer and withdrawing from everyone. But when it was discovered that she was a woman, the Venerable One was forced to leave the monastery.

November 1, 2024

November: Day 1: Teaching 1: Holy Wonderworkers and Unmercenaries Kosmas and Damian


November: Day 1: Teaching 1: Holy Wonderworkers and Unmercenaries Kosmas and Damian
 
(On Dissatisfaction With One's Condition)

By Archpriest Grigory Dyachenko

I. Saints Kosmas and Damian, whose memory is celebrated today, were brothers; their father, a Greek, was a pagan; and their mother, Theodotia, professed the Christian faith. She was widowed in her youth and led a pious life, and according to the words of the Apostle Paul: "A true widow," he says, "trusts in God and continues in supplications and prayers day and night." Theodotia accustomed her children to a godly life, strictly watched over them, instructed them in virtue, and taught them the Divine Scriptures.

From infancy, Kosmas and Damian tried to fulfill the law of God, and when they reached adulthood, like two lamps, they shone with good deeds. In order to be of greater benefit to their neighbors, they took up medical science, learned the healing properties of herbs and plants, and became skilled doctors. The Lord blessed the good doctors and granted them healing, miraculous powers. The brothers did not seek earthly glory or wealth, never took money or gifts from the sick, strictly following the words of the Savior, Who said to the Apostles: "Heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, freely have you received, freely give" (Matthew 10:8). For such selflessness, the Church called them "unmercenaries."

July 11, 2024

The Legacy of Saint Sophrony the Hagiorite (An Interview With Metropolitan Hierotheos of Nafpaktos)


By Metropolitan Hierotheos of Nafpaktos and Agiou Vlasiou

Tomorrow (July 11, 2020) the memory of Saint Sophrony the Hagiorite is celebrated for the first time. I had taken all the steps to find myself on this great day for my life and the lives of many others in the Sacred Monastery of Essex in England to celebrate his first feast as a Saint of our Church.

Many times from 1976 to 1993 I liturgized with him and felt the inner life of a hermit Hieromonk, I heard from his mouth words of eternal life, I lived blessed days with him all these years of our communication. He loved me and I loved him.

Unfortunately, however, the conditions of the pandemic did not allow me to attend this great day in the place where he lived the last years of his life and reposed.

My sadness is somewhat mitigated by the thought that the whole Church will celebrate the memory of the Saint in every place, but also by the publication of an interview I was asked to participate in for the Romanian magazine Familia Ortodoxă.

I quote below this interview, in which a small part of the legacy of Saint Sophrony is presented, as a small part of me, as a small candle in his memory, on this great day.

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1. Question: Your Eminence, the long-awaited time has come for the first celebration of Elder Sophrony of Essex as a saint of our Church. We know that you made the proposal for his canonization, as you also proposed the canonization of other great contemporary saints of our Church, Saint Paisios the Athonite and Saint Porphyrios of Kavsokalyva. Please tell us how you met Elder Sophrony and how did you understand that he is a saint?

Answer: It is true that I wrote to the Ecumenical Patriarchate about the canonization of Elder Sophrony in 2004. Of course, many Clergy, Monks and Christians requested it from the Ecumenical Patriarch. Among others, I can mention the Monks of the Sacred Monastery of Saint Paul on the Holy Mountain, where Saint Sophrony was a spiritual father.

However, Ecumenical Patriarch Bartholomew himself wanted the canonization of Elder Sophrony, because he understood the influence that his life, conduct and teaching had on the Christians of Europe, but also on the whole world.

It is a special blessing that I wrote to the Ecumenical Patriarch for Saint Sophrony, and for Saint Porphyrios and for Saint Paisios.

I met Saint Sophrony, first from the book he wrote about Saint Silouan the Athonite, and later from my own personal searches.

At the beginning I understood, or I can say I felt internally, that in his heart flowed the hesychastic and theoptic stream of the Church, from the Prophets, to the Apostles, to the Fathers. Therefore, it expressed the genuine Orthodox life.

2. Question: Why is Saint Sophrony of Essex considered one of the great Church Fathers of the 20th century? What is the legacy that Saint Sophrony left to modern man?

Answer: Precisely, as I said before, that he himself was in the stream of the Prophets, the Apostles and the Fathers of the Church, he was one of their exponents, he was truly deified. This was shown by the atmosphere he created with his presence, his speech, his silence, his prayer, the Divine Liturgy he celebrated.

Much can be said about the legacy he left to everyone, especially to those who knew him more closely. I think a key aspect of this legacy is that Christ is the true God. He revealed the Father to us and sent us the Holy Spirit, and through Christ we know the Father, through Him we are led to eternity.

Saint Sophrony said that Christ is "the criterion of everything" and "we must bring to consciousness that we must also adopt and assimilate the mind and life of Christ Himself. To behave towards Him truly as children to a father and students to a teacher, that is, able to live the life of God Himself. And when we enter fully into His life, then this state will surely be 'theosis'."

3. Question: Saint Sophrony was an Elder of freedom. We ask you to talk to us about the teaching of Saint Sophrony about freedom. What is freedom and how does one acquire it?

Answer: Saint Sophrony, as he himself writes in his book We Shall See Him As He Is, attained the vision of Divine Light, which is a great and rare experience. He saw the Light of God after Divine Communion and this Light remained with him for three days. He saw the Light during the time of noetic hesychasm and pure prayer. He strongly reminds us of Saint Symeon the New Theologian.

Thus he acquired a spiritual freedom and through this freedom he faced all the issues of his life and in this freedom of spirit he also led the people with whom he had a spiritual relationship.

Therefore, according to Saint Sophrony, freedom is not man's autonomy or life according to his passions, but it is life according to Christ, absolute trust in God's Providence and, above all, communion with Him in the Light.

He himself said that when "we cling strongly, like children, to Him we receive even what He has, a divine character," then in this state of fear of God "we will come to experience divine freedom from time to time."

Thus, for Saint Sophrony, freedom is a "gift of God", "it is in essence inseparable from the knowledge of the Eternal", it is our entrance through the action of the Grace of God "into the sphere of the freedom of God's children." And we can experience this in the Church, which is the Body of Christ, with the help of a deified spiritual father.

4. Question: How is spiritual freedom manifested in the communication between spiritual father and disciple?

Answer: The spiritual father, according to Saint Sophrony, is the one who passed from the Egypt of the passions to the desert of dispassion and from there reached the land of promise, of theoptia (vision of God). He is the one who experienced the first great arrival of divine Grace, the lifting of Grace and its subsequent arrival and has experience of the spiritual life. He is the one who met God and subsequently loves all people and with this love he wants to "bring people out of the hades they created with their own contradictory passions."

The work of the spiritual father is to create gods according to Grace "for eternity in the uncreated Light." It is a great work, he is not a simple guide for everyday problems.

This means that the spiritual father works with those entrusted to him by God, as God Himself does, that is, he works with love, with tenderness, without violence and excessive emotion. More as an empirical guide than as a legislator. He sees their situation and knows where and how he will guide them. Therefore, between the spiritual father and the spiritual child there must be "a breeze of spiritual freedom" and a search for God in eternity, so that the spiritual child will keep God's covenant eternally.

The Saint did his work more as a spiritual brother. He himself used to say to his monks: "You know how I never dare to say that I am a father or an elder. This does not suit me. I am among you as a brother. Nothing more."

And because towards the end of his life he was walking supported by two monks, he told them jokingly: "I feel as if I am with two brothers: they are the ones who have power over me!"

This is very important, because it shows a sense of spiritual fatherhood and brotherhood, but also recognition of what someone who was connected to him wanted, that he wanted to lead him to Christ, but also shows a great sensitivity. This is how I met him, as a big, experienced brother, full of self-sacrificing love.

5. Question: In marriage, how does one grant freedom to the other? What does freedom mean to a couple?

Answer: Saint Sophrony knew very well how to guide monks towards theosis, in the search for God. He knew what it would mean to give up everything and dedicate one's whole life to God in order to live in eternity with Him. In fact, he defined theosis as that state in which we act according to the will of God, according to the mind of Christ, according to the words of the Apostle Paul: "Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus" (Phil. 2:5).

However, when he was in Europe, first in Paris and then in England, he also needed to guide married people, with many family problems, regarding the relationships of the spouses with each other and regarding their relationships with their children.

First of all, influenced by the spirit and the teaching of the Holy Fathers, he knew that the monastic life is the pre-fallen state of man, that is, before the fall of Adam, and that marriage, as we know it today, is a post-fallen phenomenon, which was blessed from God. Also, he knew what it meant that man is in the image and likeness of God and therefore he guided all people, monastics and married people, in this direction.

He writes somewhere that humanity, due to the fall that they existed in before the incarnation of Christ, "did not know monogamy", because "polygamy is natural for the corrupt man", because they live with their passions. Christ blessed monogamy, therefore, as he said, "Christian monogamy is supernatural, it is a call to our responsibility for the deepest possible awareness of our personal origin."

That is, he said that the love between spouses should not be simply of the "soul or body", it should not remain within the limits of nature, and even as it was created after the fall, "so as not to be connected to the anatomy or at best, with the soul", but it must be the effort of the spouses to become "a temple for the worship of the Father who is without beginning. Then marriage becomes a way to salvation."

You understand at what spiritual height he saw the mystery of marriage. Within this perspective he guided the spouses and emphasized humility as a condition of real life. To a young man who came into conflict with his wife, with whom he had two children, he said: "Humble yourself, and then we will avoid the tragic dissolution of the family. And the little children will be saved from the tragic form of life that exists for children whose parents are separated."

It seems, therefore, clearly that the Elder guided the people with spiritual wisdom, discernment, each time exercising exactitude and sometimes economia, but always from the perspective of man's life in eternity with Christ.

6. Question: Also, as parents, how can we find the golden measure between freedom and restriction in our relationship with their children?

Answer: I think that when husbands and wives find the golden rule in their relationships, which connects true love with true freedom, then they will also find the golden rule between freedom and restriction in their relationships with their children.

After all, the education of children is not done according to what the parents say with words, but what the parents themselves are in their inner life, in their hearts. Children will assimilate what they felt from the inner world of their parents and not what they see externally at home.

Saint Sophrony said that it is very important for the education of children what the atmosphere of the family is in which the children grow up. Just as the fetus lives and grows in the amniotic fluid in its mother's womb, so, in a way, the spiritual amniotic fluid of the home must be such that the child feels the love of God and the freedom of the spirit.

In other words, the atmosphere of the house in which the child grows up must be an atmosphere of prayer, of trust in God. This inspires the children and they feel the spiritual life not as commandments, nor as rules, but as a feeling of love and freedom in the life of Christ. In such an atmosphere children understand what God is and how He works with people, otherwise they will get a distorted image not only of their parents, but also of God Himself.

7. Question: We are going through a difficult period due to the coronavirus pandemic. What advice do you think Saint Sophrony would give to today's people for the current crisis?

Answer: The period we are going through is indeed difficult, but it is not only this period that is difficult, we always and everywhere encounter difficulties. Our whole life is not as God originally planned it, but as it was shaped after the advice of the devil and our own consent with the entry into our lives of corruption and mortality, the so-called garments of skin.

Thus, from the beginning of our conception we suffer from corruption and mortality. Death is constantly lurking in our lives, we have it within us, with the genes of aging. Before the body parts are formed in the embryo, but even before the embryonic stem cells are differentiated, within us there are the aging genes, that is, the death genes, which manifest themselves in various diseases immediately after the birth of a person.

Saint Sophrony went through many tests in his life, in terms of health. Thus, he used the discoveries of medical science, but in the end he had absolute trust in the providence and love of God, and he considered the time of death, as paradoxical as it may seem, as "a celebratory event".

He wrote to his sister Maria that the day of the soul's departure from the body is man's liberation "from the teeth of death", since death is a beast that devours everything. And he wrote to her that then "we will laugh at the end", and that "our last laugh will be the best". This moment of the exit of the soul from the body is "triumphant", because the spirit of man moves through all the ages.

I don't know what advice he would give to people for what we are going through, but what I told you he taught in general. We must take care of the prolongation of biological life in order to obtain real repentance, but we must also overcome the fear of death with the faith in our encounter with God.

8. Question: What is the most important and characteristic teaching of Saint Sophrony?

Answer: Everything he said was important, because he had experienced it first in his own life as tragic and redemptive events.

I noticed, however, that he considered his meeting with each person individually as a "prophetic event", as was the meeting between Elizabeth, the mother of the Honorable Forerunner, and the Panagia, the Mother of Christ.

In every meeting he left himself free to God's illumination, he asked God for a reason to speak to that particular person. This is what the Prophets did. They prayed to God: "Speak, Lord, because your servant is listening" (1 Kings 3:9-10), and then they said: "Thus says the Lord" (cf. Is. 1:24).

Apart from the prayer he made, I understood very well that what he said to the people was the fruit of his own experience and not the fruit of intellectual thoughts or the result of ideas he read in some books. He himself said: "I also work like many 'teachers' in the world: They record their knowledge and through this means they also teach others."

However, I could say that what I saw in Saint Sophrony, which was an expression of his whole life, was the inspiration he had and which he conveyed to those who approached him. He acted as a spiritual artist who had inspiration and wanted to paint Christ in the heart of his interlocutor and make him also a spiritually inspired artist.

When I speak of inspiration, I mean that he was trying to inspire others to reject evil thoughts, to pray, to love God, to keep the covenant they made with God and to live continuously with the eternal and for the eternal.

For example, he advised his listeners: "We cannot live a Christian life without inspiration. If an artist, a true artist, lives day and night with the images of his art, then we Christians must be even more careful. We must go beyond the efforts of the artist, to live according to the spirit of the gospel."

He also said: "The most important thing now is for God to inspire your struggle for salvation. When inspiration is given, then life is filled with light and joy. We don't notice the details anymore."

And he further said: "In order not to lose the blessing that God gave you, strive to assimilate every thought that inspires you and to banish every thought that kills you."

One understood this inspiration when approaching Saint Sophrony, as it happened to me.

9. Question: You were a disciple of Saint Sophrony and you got to know him intimately, although you only went to Essex for one month each year. Can there be spiritual communication at a distance? How is such communication maintained?

Answer: This is a personal question and I don't know how to answer it. I think it depends on how one means distance. Is it geographical and temporal distance, is it heart distance, is it spiritual distance? I, however, despite the geographical distance I had with Saint Sophrony, tried to reduce the distance of our hearts. I cannot explain this to you more, but you can understand it if you read the second part of my book I Knew A Man In Christ.

However, there is a general rule, that what is true, even when it is divided it is united, while what is false, when it is united, it is actually divided. This rule applied to me in relation to Saint Sophrony. I was trying for my relationship with him to be true.

However, I would like to tell you that I was his disciple in the most general sense of the term, that is, I was studying the mysteries of the Kingdom of God where he lived. Before I met him, I had studied almost all the primary Fathers of the Church, I had a spiritual father par excellence, the Metropolitan of Edessa, Pelli and Almopia Kallinikos, who was already canonized by the Ecumenical Patriarchate, and with his blessing I went to Saint Sophrony. I was in the middle between a holy Bishop and a holy Hieromonk ascetic.

Thus, with the meeting with Saint Sophrony I found what I said at the beginning, the combination between Prophets, Apostles and Fathers. I found a great hesychast and theologian, I found what I was reading in the Holy Scriptures and in the Patristic texts, I landed in the stream of the hesychast tradition and swam freely in it.

Therefore, in this way I removed the local and temporal distance and experienced the meeting with him, as far as I could understand it. And this means that when one is hungry and thirsty and asks to be united with Christ and to live eternally with Him, then all distances are abolished.

10. Question: How is it possible for us to become disciples "at a distance" of Saint Sophrony?

Answer: I think I answered with my previous answer. We must become disciples of the Kingdom of God, love Christ and obey His commandments, and this must be done within the space of the Church. Then Christ will reveal to us His own people. And our whole life will be a constant surprise.

Saint Sophrony himself recommended that we constantly think of Christ: "Let our thoughts be where Christ is. Then our prayer will be with Him and there will not be much room left for the passions. We will get used to living in this way, and with this peaceful life we will build our whole being."

It is also important that our consciousness expands and embraces the whole world. He said: "Before everyone, we must be ready to fulfill their will rather than ours. This is how our consciousness expands. Little by little, in a completely unexpected way, the lament for 'the race of Adam' is born in us."

I would like to end this interview with some words of his that has always made a great impression on me and always made me think deeply. He used to say: "Life is so short and the goal so high, but also so far away."

Indeed, short is our biological life, high is our purpose from our creation and we see that we are far from our goal. And after all this, I think: How can we deal with so many details in our lives, without having inspiration, without being spiritual artists? And how can we play with eternity?

Source: Translated by John Sanidopoulos.
 
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July 10, 2023

Saint Amalia of Maubeuge as a Model for our Lives

St. Amalia (Feast Day - July 10)

 By Protopresbyter Fr. George Papavarnavas

Saint Amalia is of Flemish origin and in the Flemish language is called Amalberga or Amelia. She lived in the 7th century in the then Orthodox Belgium, in the province of Brabant, whose capital today is Brussels, and was born in the Walloon region of the province of Brabant of the then kingdom of the Carolingians, called Neustria. She came from an aristocratic family and was the sister, or according to others the neice of Pippin, Duke of Brabant and Count of Laden. She married Witger, who was Duke of Lorraine and Count of Brabant, and they had five children, whom they raised "in the education and admonition of the Lord."

Saint Amalia and her husband, when their children grew up, decided together to live the rest of their lives as monastics. Amalia joined the order of Benedictine monastics, specifically in the women's Holy Monastery of Maubeuge, in today's Northern France near the border with Belgium, while her husband became a monk in the Holy Monastery of Lobbes.