How Should Adult Children Relate to People Who Teach Them to Act Against the Will of Their Parents
March 3
(A word of Saint Ephraim, that one ought not to obey those who swear one to evil.)
By Archpriest Victor Guryev
March 3
(A word of Saint Ephraim, that one ought not to obey those who swear one to evil.)
By Archpriest Victor Guryev
Today our word is addressed to you, grown children, and this is what we shall say to you. We often see that evil people surround you and teach you to go against the will of your parents — and you listen to them. Indeed, why is it that in your families there are constant quarrels with parents, all kinds of disorders and family divisions? Chiefly it is from the slander and instigation of evil people.
A son meets some wicked man, tells him about some family misunderstanding, and that man begins to inflame the misunderstanding and to arm the son against his father or mother. And so the son, after meeting such a person, returns to his father’s house no longer the same as when he left it; he begins to raise his voice more and more in conversations with his parents, and then a spark turns into a flame, which in the end consumes the happiness and peace of the family.
From this it clearly follows that you, children, must flee from people who teach you to go against your parents as from a destructive plague. Only then, as the Venerable Ephraim the Syrian says, will you, by God’s mercy, escape family misfortunes and great calamities.








